2 Words That Change Your Life

Today, I’m going to share with you a 2-word phrase that can change your life.

You might be wondering what those two words are. Don’t worry, we’ll get there in a moment.

You know, when I ask my friends about what they really want in their lives, their dreams, etc., the answers that I often receive are:

I don’t know

I’m not sure

I wish I had one…

(Or they just give me a guilty smile)

These answers are not specific at all and if you really know what you want, how on earth you expect to GET IT?!

It just doesn’t make any sense.

Picture this:

You get into a cab and as usual the cab driver will ask you where do you wane go. What if you tell the cab driver this, “I don’t know, just drive and I’ll tell you when we have reached.”

(If I’m the cab driver, I’ll throw you out on the spot. You’re wasting my time.)

How do you expect to get to the destination if you don’t know where you want to go?

It sounds crazy but that’s how most people leading their lives. Their motto seems to be “life happens to me” instead of “I create my own life and destiny.” Are you one of them? I hope not.

The third answer, which is “I wish I can,” is more specific but it lacks some passion in it. The word, “I wish” means you hope to get something but you don’t necessarily need it.

Here’s an example:

Let’s say you just finished your dinner and for some unknown reasons, you just want to taste a small slice of cheese cake. You want it not because you are hungry. It’s just that if you have it, your life will be better and if you don’t, no big deal to you as well.

That’s what I mean by lacking of passion, when you just wish for something and nothing further.

To teach your goal, you need more powerful words than just “I wish.” The two words are, I WANT!

When you say, “I want,” it means you must have it and there’s no excuse for you not to have it. It’s like oxygen—it’s very essential to one’s existence!

You don’t just wish that you could have plenty of oxygen to breathe, do you? You want it and you must have it because it gives you life. See the difference?

If you want to be successful, integrate these 2 words in your life:

“I WANT”

For example:

I want to be a millionaire.

I want a healthy life.

I want to go to gym and workout everyday.

I want to give lots of love to my wife, children and family each and everyday.

I want to be financially free by 31^st December 2009.

I want to help at least one person a day for the rest of my life.

I want to get 5 new customers (and keep them) everyday.

I want my family and I to be happy together.

And many more…

See yourself as a commander. When you use the words “I want,” you are giving commands to yourself and the universe. Every command must be clear and specific.

Your words are NOW laws!

The phrase “I want” gives you more authority and motivation to achieve something than the phrase “I wish.”

Try to say these 2 sentences out loud:

I want to be successful!

I wish to be successful.

Which sentence gives you more driving force to be successful? (Share your thought with me in the comment box.)

So, remember to use the word “I want” when you attract the things you want with the Law of Attraction.

Using Creative Visualization To Empower Your Life With Law Of Attraction

Creative visualization is the process of generating images in your mind, and is often used as a tool for self-improvement and stress relief. Athletes, celebrities and successful people from all walks of life have touted visualization as an effective way to improve performance, enhance skills and boost confidence.

As farfetched as it may seem, visualization can actually help you to overcome fears and strengthen your ability to do anything you desire because your subconscious mind accepts these visions as real experiences – just as it would if you were physically engaging in such a reality. Athletes in particular swear by the effectiveness of mentally going through their practice exercises numerous times in order to enhance their physical performance – but visualization can be a powerful aid in any endeavor; not just athletics.

Below you’ll find a few tips to help you make your visualization practice as powerful and effective as possible:

1)Make your visualizations very detailed.

Rather than simply visualizing yourself in a better situation than you’re in now, try seeing more details of the new situation you wish to experience, such as the type of clothing you’re wearing, the size and state of your body, the other people around you, the details of your home or career, and so on. The more detail you can infuse into your visions, the more “real” they will seem, and the better your subconscious mind will be able to believe them.

2)Visualize frequently and consistently.

Visualization is like any positive habit; the benefits build up the more you do it! If you visualize sporadically, your results will be equally sporadic. Instead, set a specific time for visualization every day – even if it’s only for 10 minutes at a time. Make it your priority to stick to this time except in the case of an emergency, and you’ll see results much more quickly.

Even better, try to perform “mini-visualizations” several times a day while you’re going about your normal activities. Simply pause for a few moments, close your eyes and recall a positive image that makes you feel happy and optimistic about some aspect of your life. This will help keep your focus strong and minimize any negativity you pick up during the course of your normal routine.

3)Use lots of emotion.

The feelings you experience while performing your visualization exercises are more important than the images you see in your mind. For example, if you’re imagining yourself as a successful business person, try to make sure you’re feeling the feelings that correspond with such a vision, such as confidence, empowerment, satisfaction and success! The stronger you can make your emotions, the more effective your visualizations will be – and the more likely you’ll be to think and act in ways that bring them forth into your physical life.

What Does Lack of Motivation Mean In Your Life?

A lack of motivation can often seem to be

A lack of motivation can often seem to be caused by laziness or procrastination at first glance, but looks can often be deceiving! If you’re struggling to stay motivated about working on your goals or any other endeavor, a little introspection can be just the thing you need to provide clarity and insight about what’s really happening beneath the surface.

Grab a sheet of paper and a pen, and answer the questions below:

1) Am I afraid of failing?

Fear of failure is an all-too-common reason why people lose motivation. If this is one of the reasons you’re holding back, you’ll likely be able to come up with clear ideas why you feel so afraid. For example, you may write, “I’m afraid of embarrassing myself in front of my family and friends,” or “I’m afraid I’ll be really disappointed in myself if I don’t make this happen.” Whatever comes to mind, write it down and then really think about whether it would be so terrible to experience – or if it would be much worse to not try at all.

2) Do I really believe in my own ability to persevere until I make it?

Likewise, you may be feeling uncertain about your ability to overcome obstacles and challenges, which is slightly different than a fear of failure. For example, you may have a certain measure of confidence in your skills and abilities but doubt that you have the determination and fortitude to achieve the full outcome you desire.

3) Have I grown bored with the goals that once meant so much to me?

This is an excellent question to ask because sometimes you’re not aware that your priorities and preferences have changed, and you can gain a lot of clarity by understanding what you REALLY want. If you do find that you’ve lost interest in your initial goals, you simply need to come up with some new and exciting goals that will spark your eagerness to move forward again.

4) Am I afraid of what it might mean if I succeed?

Another common fear is the fear of success. A fear of success is more about fearing the baggage that often comes along with success. You may feel nervous about taking on extra responsibility, feel overwhelmed by the increased attention your success would bring, or you might even be worried that you’ll never be able to “top” this level of success in the future. The only way to work through these fears is to discredit them. When you break them down and really examine them, you usually find that they’re groundless or irrational, which helps you to move past them.

5) What would make me feel more motivated about this goal or activity?

Sometimes you can’t find any clear reason for feeling unmotivated, but asking this question can often help you feel more in control of your own willingness to take action. Not only do you realize that you’re not powerless against a lack of motivation, you may come up with creative ideas that could inspire your sense of enthusiasm again.